"Equalists"

"I'm not a feminist, I'm an equalist."

No you're not, you're a feminist. Feminists believe in equality. You don't have to have hairy legs or hate men (though both are reasonable lifestyle choices) to earn the title of feminist. It sets us all back to disavow the work of those men and women who advocate for women. Don't distance yourself or leave the advocates hanging. Represent the movement as it is, and be an advocate too.